You Made It About You…

 

Some of you reading feel unattractive; defeated; unqualified, and undeserving all because of “NO”.  You wanted something or someone so badly, but when “No” was their response, you made it personal…  Because he/she said “No”, you assumed it was because you’re not pretty/handsome;  smart or good enough for them…  When the bank said “No”, you assumed it was because your vision, concept and ideal wasn’t good enough for the financial backing you so desperately needed…  When the company you’ve dreamed of working for told you “No”, you assumed it was because you weren’t educated, skilled or qualified for the position they were seeking to fill…  When God answered “No”, you thought it was because of your past and He was punishing you for all the things you’ve thought, said and done…  You made “No” all about you, when it has nothing to do with you…

Rejection is one hard pill to swallow…  No one wants to feel as though they’re not good enough for anything or anyone, in our hearts we truly want everyone to see us as someone they need in their future, but this isn’t always the case.  Sadly to say, you’re not everyone’s type; a person others are willing to invest in; a good fit for every company, nor are your wants God’s wants for your life….  I had to learn the hard way that someone’s “NO” has nothing to do with me…   That it’s not rejection, just a “NO”… Those (Click HERE to read more)