The Trick’s Eye’s Play On You…

 
“What we see is what we want to be” Quincy Jones
 
Our eyes can get us in some real trouble… We see, want it and when we achieve it, we realize many times we can’t handle it… Our eyes see one thing, but underneath the visible, there’s a whole different truth… Many of you have gone your entire lives feeling inadequate because of what your eyes have seen… What you saw was greater than what you had, so you believed you weren’t good enough… What if what your eyes saw was only an illusion??? What if what your eyes saw was really the truth??? Does it matter??? Does it make you any less greater??? Does it make what (Click HERE to read more)
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That Feeling I Get When Thinking Of You…

Hey my love,
 
Words can’t express how I feel each time I look at you… Actually, what I feel is indescribable… The way you smile, walk and talk, all erupts an orgasmic feeling inside… Those things that separates you from everyone else is what I love the most about you… Honestly, when I look at you I’m aroused, I just want to touch you… Touch every inch of your body and if I could, I would help you reach climatic endings never experienced before… You are the epitome of gorgeous; the definition of sexy, and you’re the living example of a masterpiece… The color of your skin turns me on… Your eyes, teeth, physique all turns me on… I’m getting all rowd up just thinking about you… (Click HERE to read more)

Help Me To Remember…

God,
 
* Help me to remember just how special I am…
* Help me to remember how intelligent, creative, and brilliant I am..
* Help me to remember I don’t have to settle for less than what I deserve…
* Help me to remember you’ve forgiven me for my past, so should I…
* Help me to remember I’m more than enough…
* Help me to remember You are always with me…
* Help me to remember I am loved…
* Help me to remember no man/woman can complete me, I have what it takes to be whole…
* Help me to remember (Click HERE to read more)

A Woman Had To Write This…

 
 
I love when I come across a quote where it’s evident A WOMAN WROTE IT… You know those quotes that include “A Real Man”; “Real Men”… Those quotes where women have been broken by a man and opposed to accepting her responsibility in the “break”, she chooses to place blame on the man…
 
So I came across the above quote earlier today and honestly, I had to take a few minutes to write my thoughts on it… “If another woman steals your man, there’s no better revenge than letting her keep him…”. Really??? Are you freaking kidding me??? One thing I’ve learned over the years is neither a man or woman, whether he’s/she’s real or fake; strong or weak, can be stolen… The CHOICE to walk away from you, the kids, house (Click HERE to read more)

The Three…

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I can remember how excited I was when first starting my weight loss journey… Focused, determined, and unstoppable… I was energized by the thoughts of living a healthier life; wearing clothes I used to wear and looking outwardly just as great as I felt inwardly. Through this journey I learned there are three types of people surrounding you… There are those who want you to succeed; those who are waiting for you to fail, and those who are waiting for you to give up…
 
It may sound like those who are waiting for you to fail are the same as those waiting for you to give up and honestly, they are completely different… Those waiting for you to fail don’t want you to succeed at all, those who are waiting for you to give up want you to succeed, but not succeed to the point in which you pass them… I can remember those people asking “Are you still working out?”; “How much have you loss?”; “Don’t lose too much, you’re going to look sick…”. Funny thing is, (Click Here to read more)

Chained To The Past…

Over the weekend a friend recommended I check out Netflix’s original series “Ozark” starring Jason Bateman… I must admit, the show is amazing, and the cast set the bar extremely high for other series. Built on lies, deceit, and secrets… For me the standout character is Ruth, a young lady who has been dealt a bad hand of life… She’s strong, yet her environment constantly beats her down… For the better part of season one, she lives in the shame of her actions… While watching her, I got to thinking about those of you reading…
 
I’ve done some crappy things in my life… Some in which I’ve shared, and other’s I plan to take to the grave… Regardless to how bad I believe these things may be, I own them… I own the hurt, shame, foul play and deceit of my actions. Before taking ownership, I allowed the fear of being exposed imprison me. Those things in which were committed with others, I allowed the fear of the other person revealing my secrets grant them power over me… In “Ozark”, the person Ruth loved the most, held her darkest secret over her… There were times he threatened to expose her to gain control or manipulate her… And just like her, the one we love the most sometimes hold the power to hurt us the worst.
 
So where am I going with this? Well, as long as you fail to own your past, your past will own you and destroy your future… Maybe you’ve done the unimaginable… Maybe you’ve committed what you believe is the worst possible sin… Maybe you’ve slept with multiple people in your past and fear the one you’re ready to settle down will find out… Maybe you’ve been in prison and fear if people find out they will walk away from you… It could be many things, only you know… Whatever it is, you must release the shame and take ownership of it.
 
So how do you take ownership??? Well first you be honest with yourself… You accept you’ve done some f’d up things, but know it doesn’t make you an f’d up person… Secondly, you forgive yourself… Forgiving yourself helps release the shame… Lastly, don’t keep it a secret… Now before you go plaster it all over the wall, this isn’t necessary… Not keeping it a secret doesn’t mean you have to tell everyone you meet or anyone at all… Not keeping it a secret only means you’re no longer afraid to talk about it if necessary… Shame is hovering over many of you today and you’re so afraid someone is going to figure just how f’d up you truly are…
 
What I know for sure is… We all have a past… We’ve all done some f’d up things in our past… The difference between you and those who are walking in freedom is they’ve decided to no longer walk in the shame of things they cannot change… There is nothing you can do to change your past, but everything you can do to change your future… Never allow anyone or anything to shame you… Walk in the freedom of the truth, you’re not perfect… Be honest, forgive and release, and allow your greatest failure to become the lesson plan for your greatest success… You are not your past, so stop reliving it…

The “Entitled Woman”

 
 
Entitlement: the belief that one is inherently deserving of privileges or special treatment.
 
Does a woman deserve a man who opens the door; take cares of check at dinner, or a man who pulls up the curb and drops her off? Absolutely… Is she owed this??? Absolutely NOT!!!
 
Does a woman deserve a “Good Morning” text each day; a “Good Night” call each night, or a man who calls during the day just to say “Hello”? Absolutely… Is she owed this???Absolutely NOT!!!
 
Does a woman deserve flowers; jewelry, or a man who will give her the finer things in life? Absolutely… Is she owed this??? Absolutely NOT!!!
 
In the world today, so many women feel a sense of “entitlement” … They act as if a man owes her the desires of her heart, (Click HERE to read more)