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When Love Is Ready, But You Are Not…

 

I’m realizing “love” is always ready and available, but the truth is most times we aren’t…  We aren’t ready for the commitment it takes, nor are we emotionally and mentally available…  Many of you say you want love, but within you lies the ingredient that poisons every opportunity of finding it….  “Love” is standing before you with its hand out hoping you will take hold of it, but because you’re holding onto things in your past, your hands are filled…  You’re single, but your heart is taken…  Maybe not by an actual individual, but taken by the residue left behind from an individual… Insecurities, trust issues, hurtful words and memories flow through its veins…  Scarred and bruised; punctured and torn; ripped and broken into pieces and to the eye of the soul, it’s unrecognizable. Never allowed to heal nor mend itself, love struggles to occupy it because hate and love can’t coexist.

“Love” stands before you, possibly packaged differently than you would like, but it’s there…  Heart Cataracts of perceptions and illusions of perfection causes you not to see it…  You’re looking for the perfect man/woman, but you’re not the perfect man/woman…  You’re looking for an “upgrade” when in actuality to the person you want, you’re a “downgrade”.   Your perception (Click HERE to read more)

2018 Dating…

 

So I have a friend, won’t mention any names for the fear of losing my life, but she tends to have somewhat of a unique thought on dating in 2018.  I’m using “unique” lightly because I truly believe it’s ludicrous…  So removing myself and focusing on her perspective, she believes as long as a man hasn’t spoken the 2 words “I do”, he’s up for grabs… It doesn’t matter if he is currently seriously dating, has a girlfriend or a fiancé, until he’s spoken those words he’s a free agent negotiating contracts, lmbo…  Now I have to give her props for speaking and living her truth because it takes a crazy or strong person to let alone believe this, but allow these words to flow from their lips…  Now those of you who are insecure within your relationship; have been cheated on in the past, or those of you who suspect your man is currently cheating, you’ve probably already called her a whore…  But it appears this mindset is somewhat of a trend in 2018 dating…

Some of you reading today are currently dating a  (Click HERE to read more)

You Don’t Want Them Problems…

 

Hey,  YEAH YOU…  You’re about to purchase a ticket for a prize you really don’t want…  Trust me when I say I understand you’ve been done wrong…  You’re feeling some kind of way about what was done to you, but let me be the first to tell you, getting revenge isn’t what you really want to do…  So how do I know this?  Well because you’re responsible for your actions, therefore you’re responsible for what comes back your way…  You see what you send out finds its way back to you…  It’s called the “Boomerang Effect”, “Karma”, “Reciprocity”, “The Golden Rule”, “Newton’s 3rd Law”…  As soon as you send out whatever you’re thinking about sending out, it’s on the way back to you…  It doesn’t matter if you’re reciprocating actions, deeds, or words… It doesn’t matter if you’re bouncing back hurt, pain, or grief…  What you send will return and sometimes it comes back with a greater force than what you sent out…

So lets look at this from a different angle…  Right now you’re thinking about how you can get even which means you’re giving time and energy to the very person who hurt you….   Never thought of it this way, huh??  Well it’s true, in order to conspire you have to invest YOU…  You’re investing (Click HERE to read more)

Here Comes…

Sadly to say, some of you are known for your troubles, problems, or drama…  When people see you approaching, instantly they think “Oh oh, here comes drama; problems; troubles; depression”…  You see, people have subconsciously categorized you by your problems…    You’re known for the issues you’ve experienced; the battles you’ve lost; the men/women who have left you; the money you’re owed….  All people know about you is the bad and why is this, well it’s because it’s all you talk about…  You’re always the victim; the one who has been done wrong; the one no one sees the good in…  You’re always the one who’s mad at someone; the one whose boss is out to get them; the one whose friends never respect them…  Every time you open your mouth you speak your problems, never your potential…

It’s sad, but some of you love throwing pity parties….  I don’t’ care what day of the week it is; what hour of the day it is, you’re going to find something wrong in your life…  Today it’s your job, tomorrow it’s your spouse, next week it’s your children, next month it’s your church, next year it’s your siblings…  BUT (Click HERE to read more)

Will You Be My Valentine?

 

So “Valentine’s Day” is quickly approaching, and some of you are already up in your feelings…  You’re single, don’t have a date, depressed about seeing and hearing what everyone else receives…  There are those of you who are thinking about this time last year when you were in a relationship, married, spouse was still living…  Lastly, there are those who are currently in a relationship and thinking “If people only knew the hell I’m living in”…  Not only is “Valentine’s Day” a time in which people reflect on the one they love, for many it’s a day when thoughts of the love they’ve had, currently missing in their life, the love they believe they’re trapped in, or the love they’ve never experienced…

Let’s quickly break down these four people…

  • “Love this time last year”…  Some of you were in a relationship/married this very time last year…  You thought things were going perfectly well, but I guess the one you were with didn’t…  Your life is in a completely different place, so you’re dreading “Valentine’s Day” because it serves as a reminder of what you had, loss, and could possibly never ever get back again…  There are those of you whose spouse/mate has transitioned, so you’re dreading this day because they’re no longer here (Keep ya head up)…

  • “Currently missing in their life”…  Some of you have been single for years…  “Valentine’s Day” serves as the reminder you’re alone…  You dread this day because you so badly want to be in a relationship, but either can’t find someone who makes your heart smile, or everyone you tend to like doesn’t feel the same…  “Valentine’s Day” causes you to question your looks, body, and qualities…  It causes you to wonder “If I’m such a great catch, why am I single?”…  It causes you to think “I’m too fat”, “No one wants me”, “I’m unloveable”…  A day which is designed for “love” causes you to inwardly “hate” yourself…

  • “The love they believe they’re trapped in”…  Now this one I can for sure relate to…  Some of you are in relationships in which you feel trapped…  Trapped (Click HERE to read more)

Tell Me Something Good About Me…

 

So this morning at the gym there’s a guy by the name of Jack who is one of the most encouraging people I’ve met in a very long time… He’s a jokester, but when he’s serious he can make you feel like a million bucks…  Over the past couple of weeks I’ve found myself facing so many challenges…  Nothing I can’t handle, but because it seems as though they’ve all hit at the same time, I’ve felt overwhelmed…  So overwhelmed that many times I’ve found myself crying because it seemed to be too much to bear… I guess I was having one of those “When it rains, it pours” moments of life…  Seemed like nothing was going my way and no matter how strong I tried to be, life just kept dropping more each and every day…

As I started to get dressed, Jack was in the locker room…  For a second I almost asked him to tell me something good about me… From what I can tell, he thinks very highly of me, so I knew he would give me words that maybe right now I’m struggling believing, but words that would be pleasant to hear…  As I was getting ready to ask, I felt convicted…  Over the past 7 (Click HERE to read more)