Hello Everyone, As many of you already know, I released my first novel, Fortune Cookie, in 2015. Fortune Cookie is just the first of a three part series that will be completed by next year. However, I just released the second installment, No Cream In The Middle, for pre-order!
The official release date for No Cream In The Middle is July 7, 2017. The special pre-sale will only last from now through June 9, 2017. There is also a special bundle price for both books if you need to catch up on the first novel before reading this one.
I am truly excited about the release of No Cream In The Middle and can’t wait to share it with you!
Also, stay tuned for details on the official book launch celebration for No Cream In The Middle on Saturday, July 8th.
No Cream In The Middle Pre-Sale
No Cream In The Middle and Fortune Cookie Bundle
I’m beginning to think I’m not “dating material”…. It’s like right now whomever I choose to date has to understand I’m passionate about my grind, I love and give my family and friends a great deal of attention, I’m a Cancer which sometimes causes me to be moody which results in me not always feeling like FaceTime, Texting or chatting on the phone and most importantly, I HAD A LIFE BEFORE THEIR APPEARANCE INTO MY WORLD must be taken into consideration… Trust me when I say, I get in the beginning of meeting someone you have to devote time and energy into building a relationship, I get this… However, I believe many times both women and men mentally move into a relationship that’s only a situationship… Yep, “situationship”… The current “situation” is two people getting to know each other, not embarking upon marriage or a relationship….
Many times expectations are placed on a casual situation… Sure maybe he shares how he enjoys spending time with you; how he’s never met someone like you before, or how about how he hopes the two of you can build something together… But none of these things mean the two of you are together… Sure maybe she gives you a kiss after the first date; invites you over for dinner with no DESSERT, or how about she sends you a nice text each and every morning… But none of these things mean the two of you are together… It’s amazing how things can be misinterpreted in dating… How one person takes everything as an indication as the other wanting to move forward into a relationship… So today let me help you not hurt you… Just (Click HERE to read more)
I’ve written numerous blogs regarding women seeking to change a man… Blogs dealing with men dominating and controlling women until they completely surrender and become the empty shell he wants, but I’ve never written about how sometimes we seek to change ourselves to fix someone else.. So today I want to talk to those of you who have been convinced by either and outside force or yourselves in order for your situation to improve, you must change who you are to fix what is broken within your situation…
Recently I heard a quote “Buying a house won’t fix a home…” and honestly I wished I came up with it, because it’s so on point… As I dived deeper into what I thought this meant, I thought of many of you… I think we’ve all been in situations with the wrong person… You know the one we want, but the one we shouldn’t have… For whatever reason, our connection is broken… Many times we seek to change the other person and after many failed attempts, we come to the conclusion it is us that’s the problem… We convince (Click HERE to read more)
Have you ever met someone who compliments you? I mean everything about him/her compliments everything about you… You’re smart, they’re smart… You’re corky, they’re corky… You’re ambitious, they’re ambitious… Everything you are, they seem to be… I mean they are perfect for you, however there’s a glitch in this program we call life… The one you want so happens to be had by someone else…
As happy as you would like to be for your friend or this person, secretly you’re somewhat disappointed… Disappointed because you’ve waited your entire life to meet someone who makes your heart smile, yet they’re unavailable… Disappointed because it seems as though God is playing tricks on your heart… Destiny introduces you to someone who seems to be the perfect match, yet it tells you “Hands Off”… Even though you’ve never expressed your true (Click HERE to read more)
So one of my newest television craves is this show called “Married At First Sight”… I mean the concept is original, the people are real and the idea of marrying someone without ever meeting them sounds ludicrous, but for some it seems to work… For a brief moment, both get the chance to bailout at the very last minute… You know like instead of saying “I Do”, he/she could say “I Don’t”, but so far no one has taken this option… So let me ask you this… Would you participate in an experiment as such??? Would you marry someone without knowing anything about them??? I mean there’s no history between the two of you, therefore no one is carrying baggage from previous experiences with the other…
For some of you ladies reading, you’re currently dating a man who has secretly chosen “I Don’t” as his option… Breaking it all the way down for you, YOU’RE NEVER GOING TO BE HIS WIFE… It could be because his palette has become used to what you’re serving up… Meaning, he’s got the cookies and now he wants the taste of cookies in another jar… It could be he’s realize you’re not “Wifey” material, but you’re a good “Right Now” Girlfriend… It could possibly be you’re sensitive and he’s waiting for the perfect time to break it off… Then it could mean you’re crazy af, dramatic, over the top and he fears for his life, so he’s sticking around just to avoid your wrath… Whatever his reason maybe, you’re never going to have his last name…
Some of you are reading and feel I’ve just punched you in your face… Deep inside you know what I’m writing is true and you’re even wondering if I know your man… Fortunately (Click HERE to read more)
You’d be surprised at the number of people who are suffering because of a divorce… Now let’s go past the missing income, kids split between two homes and even the downward shift that led to divorce court… Some are struggling just with the thought of what they consider a “Failed Marriage”… For years some gave everything to the one believed to be their “Soul Mate”… Never in a million years would they have imagined the two of them calling it a quits and throwing in the towel… Love is supposed to be enough, right? Love is supposed to cover all flaws, bury all transgressions and supposed to be strong enough to forgive anyone and anything, right? For those who are struggling, love wasn’t enough…
Love wasn’t enough to make their spouse want to stay; stop cheating; stop beating, nor was it enough to make their ex realize they’re the ying to their yang… Love wasn’t strong enough to silence their mates from saying “I don’t want this marriage anymore”… Wasn’t strong enough nor did it serve as the glue to mend the shattered pieces of what once was a beautiful masterpiece… It wasn’t strong enough to count the years they’ve spent building and avoid it being torn down in a matter of minutes… Their spouse was (Click HERE to read more)
At first I was going to type up this whole spill on “Flag Football”, but hey I respect your time, so no need for all the gibberish… So here we go…
Some of you are seeing “Red Flags” appearing all over the place… “Red Flags” of lies, cheating, abusive behavior, stealing, disrespect and inappropriate treatment… I mean the one you’re with is waving a flag in your face, yet you repeatedly day after day look over them … Many of you have convinced yourselves into believing those flags slapping you in your face is nothing but residue of your insecurities… You’ve convinced yourself those things you’re seeing really aren’t happening, that you’re just making them up yourself… Or at least this is what they’ve told you… Everyone around you can see them… They’re constantly warning you of the hurt ahead, yet you stop talking to them because you don’t want to hear you’re about to drive over a cliff…
Trust me when I say, I’ve been where you are… I had the warning lights flashing indicating danger is ahead, but I convinced myself those were Christmas (Click HERE to read more)