3 Things To Do When Your Ex Calls

 

It’s been said, “You don’t know what you have until it’s gone”, but this is not necessarily true…  Some of you have loss some pretty amazing people…  People who were good to and for you…  People who loved you in your worst, cheered you on in your best, and people who saw you for you who you could be and not who you were… You took them for granted and thought they would never ever have the guts to walk away, but they surprised you, and now you’re living with regrets of not being smart enough to recognize what they brought to your life…

So today, I’m talking to the person who has left you behind..   For those of you whose ex texts you on the holidays and birthdays, sporadically calls, and the ex you wish would get the picture and move on with their lives, THIS POST IS FOR YOU…  Here are 3 things you should do when your ex calls…

  • Smile:  Smile because you’re out of the relationship, done with him/her, and because they finally recognized who you are and what you were worth….  Smile because you’re free of the drama, possibly abuse, and the headache…  You may not remember why you guys broke up, and if you don’t this is okay, don’t (Click “HERE” to read more)

The Reason People Are In Your Business

Okay this morning I stopped by Walmart on my way to the gym…  I’m tending to my own business, not getting involved in anyone else’s, however there were two employees talking…  They weren’t whispering, nor did they give a dayum (Italian Translation: DAMN) if anyone heard their conversation…  So as I walked up to grab the Naked juice, one of the guys says to other “Yeah man the two girls up front are married, and I’m all up in that…  What do you think I be doing while we on break???  When their husband comes around, they know not to say anything to me…”  SMH…  As I walked off I thought to myself, “He’s ignorant, immature, and lacks self-confidence”.

Any man who feels the need to share his sexual history with anyone is seeking attention and approval…  Manhood is not defined by the size of your meat, nor is it defined by how many women who have had it…  I’ve been accused of being an extremely private person and to some degree, this is true….  But in reality, I’m not a private guy, I just don’t share my business…  I’ve learned the best secrets are the one’s never told…  Growing up I was always taught, “What happens at home, stays at home” and this is how I continue to live my life…  It’s none of your business who I choose to sleep with, who I’ve slept with, and who I’m avoiding sleeping with…  Just like a lady, real men never kiss and tell…

So this brings me to you  (Click “HERE” to read more)

A “Boo” Won’t Fix You..

 

In “How to Win the Dating Game” one of the key factors I bring to light is “Know who you are to know what you want”…  So many of you reading this post are failing at dating not only because you haven’t gotten your copy of my book, but because you’re clueless as to who you are which has resulted in you dealing with a lot of unnecessary ish…

You’re settling for somebody to have someone, repeatedly going on dates leading nowhere and sadly to say, some of you have contemplated going back to the deadbeat you just left…  You’re dating with expectations, no purpose, and you’re wasting time with someone you don’t like to avoid sitting at home dealing with someone you don’t know (YOU)…  What in the hell is wrong with you???? You’re putting up and dealing with things you said you would never ever deal with just to keep from being alone and having to deal with your own issues…  Here’s a tip for you, “Having a boo won’t fix YOU…”

So what are you willing to deal with???  Are you willing to deal with someone who lacks vision, lacks (Click “HERE” to read more)

Love Is The Only Thing Missing…

 

Have you ever felt like there was something missing in your life?  It’s like you have everything you want, but there’s this one piece of the puzzle you can’t find?  You’re successful, achieving your goals, living your dreams, but you’re doing all of this alone.  No one to smile when you cross the finish line…  No one to share the feeling of accomplishment with…  No one to come home to tell the challenges you conquered throughout the day…  You’re happy, but sad all at the same time…

What do you do about that feeling to be held, supported, and encouraged when you feel like giving up???  It’s like you’re all alone and to be honest, it hurts like hell…  (Click “HERE” to read more)

An Appointment With Destiny…

 

Many of you are filled with mind blowing concepts, ideas, and things that could change the world as we know it today, but you’re waiting…  Waiting for the right time, the right person, for someone to recognize you…  Did you know each day destiny awaits you???  That just like you’re waiting for someone to recognize you, it’s waiting for you to recognize it???  Well it’s true…  Everything you want or could possibly have is waiting for you to grab hold of it…

Many times we’re looking for the finished product and this is not how it always happens…  Sometimes destiny presents itself in the beginning and brainstorming stages…  It asks you to put in a little work…  It requires you to prove your thirst and hunger for what you want…   Do you remember as a child how you were able to see yourself working the profession you wanted? Living in the house you wanted?  Married to the man/woman you wanted?  Well somewhere in life someone told you, “No, you can’t do that”, and you  (Click “HERE” to read more)

What Makes Me A Relationship Expert??? You Ask…

 

This past weekend I was asked the question many of you are thinking, “What makes you a relationship expert???” and to be honest with you, NOTHING makes me an expert on your relationship or love life….  But I have to ask you, what makes Steve Harvey (divorced), Oprah (never been married), Dr. Phil (un-relatable – married before you were born) or any other famous person you tend to listen to an expert on your relationship or love life???  Is it because they have millions of followers???  Have a syndicated radio or TV show???  Is it because they portray a happy marriage/relationship for the world to see???  I’m always blown away how someone who doesn’t have as great of a following YET can say the very thing someone famous says, but it’s not quite as valuable or applicable coming from them…

So let’s get back to me…  I’m not an expert on relationships, nor is “How to Win the Dating Game” a book on relationships…  As a single man who actively dates, I’m relatable…  Outside the fact I’m a Certified Life Coach, I understand and  (Click “HERE” to read more )