You Believed Them…

I’m realizing more and more each day just how much I want people to have everything they want in life…  I find myself energize by the thoughts of others living their lives as they’ve envisioned, dreamed, and as God has planned…  I find myself quite often asking “What’s holding you back?”, “What’s keeping you from having it?”, “What are you afraid of??”…  It’s like they’re unable to see the power of their imagination and how if God granted them the ability to see it, He has embedded the power within them to be it…

Did you know you can have everything you want in life???  Well… everything that doesn’t go against the plan He has for your life…  With the exception of those things, you can truly have anything you can imagine…  Some of you reading are filled with so many amazing concepts, ideals, (Click HERE to read more)

4 Things “Your Love” Can’t Do…

Have you ever loved someone, but your love wasn’t enough???  It wasn’t enough to make him/her stop cheating, stop beating, nor was it enough for them to stop overeating… It wasn’t enough to make him/her start treating you like you deserved, start supporting you, nor was it enough for them to start loving you…  You love him/her with every fiber of your body, but it seems as though that’s not enough…  You’re convinced they’re the one you’re supposed to be with, but their actions causes you to question what you believe is true…  Why can’t they love you like you love them???  Do they even love you???  Or has love blinded you to the truth and now you’re looking like a fool???

 Here are “4 Things “Your Love” Can’t Do…”

  • “Your Love” can’t change someone who doesn’t want to be changed…  Today, some of you deeply love someone you wish would change…  You see their potential, but unfortunately they don’t…  You see all he/she can be; everything they’re capable of doing and for some of you, you even see the things they shouldn’t be doing… You love them in spite of the lies, abuse, cheating, unemployment, dark and dirty past, and you even love them in times it feels they don’t love you…  If only “your love” was enough to make them change the error of their ways, but it isn’t…

  • “Your Love” can’t make him/her love themselves…  If only the one you loved could see what you see…  If only they could see the beauty/good looks, the hotness/swag, and (Click HERE to read more)

Sometimes Detours Are Necessary…

 

So things aren’t going the way you thought they would???  By now you are supposed to be further along, huh???  Should see the finish line, right???  Unfortunately, as you look ahead all you can see are roadblocks…  Secretly you’re wondering if you’re headed in the right direction, and there have even been times where you’ve questioned whether or not your GPS (God) is taking you down the correct path…  You’re thinking about turning around and going back home (your comfort zone)…  Thinking there you’re safe from being sideswiped (disappointed), rear ended (stabbed in the back), and there you can avoid head on collisions (confrontations) with reckless drivers (haters) who don’t give a damn about their life, your life, or what’s waiting for you at your destination…

Having dreams, visions, and living a life of passion isn’t always going to be an easy…  There are going to be times in which you feel you’re on the wrong path; times in which you feel maybe you’ve stepped out of the will of God and pursuing (Click HERE to read more)

Why Men Are More Successful At Finding “The One”…

 

So last night I was a guest on “When Black Men Talk” Radio Show… The host was extraordinary, questions were well thought out, and the dialogue was off the charts…  It’s just something about Men, regardless of the color of their skin, truthfully talking about things that have shaped us to into the extraordinary people we are today…  So one of the questions asked was “Do women and men date differently?”…  Now I’ve talked about this before in a post, however today I want to go deeper into why I believe men are more successful at finding “The One”…

My belief has nothing to do with the ratio of single women to single men, nor does it have anything to do with the number of men who are promiscuous, on the “Down Low”, in prison, on drugs, uneducated, or unemployed…  Men are just better at dating and the number of men compared to the number of women who find their soul mate, proves it…  Because of this truth that so many of you reading doubt, more women are questioning their smarts, gifts, worth, and whether or not they will ever get married…

So here are two reasons “Why Men Are More Successful At Finding “The One””…

“Men search for “The One” based on a list which includes their “Don’t Want” whereas women create a list of “Must Haves””…   It’s true, men in most cases look for a woman who lacks the negative qualities of their ex… If their ex was overbearing, negative, a constant nagger, lacked a sexual appetite, more than (Click HERE to read more)

3 Reasons You Should Be Thankful For Your Ex…

 

I was asked recently, “How do you know you’re over your ex?” and my response was, “You know you’re over them when you’re thankful they entered and exited your life”…  Some of you haven’t reached this place because you’re still upset, bitter, living in the hurt and hiding in the shame of your past relationship…  Each day you wake up your mind is flooded with thoughts of what happen, the things done to you, and how you were made to be a fool…  You find yourself not wanting to get out of bed, crying yourself back to sleep and for some of you, thoughts of how to get even seems very tempting…  Well do you know as long as you hold onto what happened, you will forever be chained to this person?  The longer you refuse to forgive, the longer you will be chained to this person???  Until you see the lessons in the relationship, the longer you will be chained to this person and a relationship that is no more???  Well it’s true and here are “3 Reasons You Should Be Thankful For Your Ex”…

First, they entered your life… Regardless to whether a relationship was great or horrible, there is a lesson in it…  People enter our lives to not only teach us something new about ourselves, but to open our eyes to the differences of others.  Whether you realize it or not, your ex taught you something new about yourself.  They either taught or confirmed the things you like, dislike, love, and hate…  Reassured you of the fact you are capable of having a relationship; helped you to see your hang-ups and because of their entrance, you now know someone other than yourself finds you attractive and appealing…

Secondly, they exited your life… As painful as a breakup sometimes feel, there’s a lesson in the pain…  Because your ex is no longer a part of your life, you now know you can move on…  Maybe they’re the one who broke up with you or forced you out of their lives, but you’re no longer in the relationship, therefore life is carrying on without him/her.  Maybe you’re (Click HERE to read more)