Are You Brave Enough To Be Honest???

On Friday I talked about trusting your mate or a person of interest with your future, but can you trust them with your past???  You know the past which includes innumerable sexual partners, slapping and cursing, manipulation and control, windows broken, tires slashed; the “YOU” you hate ever existed but the “YOU” that has taught you and made you who you are today???  Or how about the past in which you were emotionally and spiritually ugly, abusive, a liar, and when you were your own worst enemy???  I asked the question on Friday, “Are you strong enough to love me?”, but today I want to ask “Are you brave enough to be honest???”

One of the most painful feelings I believe when casually/seriously dating or married is finding out the person you thought they were, they really aren’t.  From the very beginning they lied about who they are, didn’t disclose who they were, and they’re painting a picture of someone they will never be…  You went in believing and hoping this time it would be different because they just seem perfect, the answer to your prayers and the one you’ve been waiting (Click “HERE” to read more)

Are You Strong Enough To Love Me???

Yesterday I was asked if I was single and my response went something like this, “Yes because I haven’t found anyone I can trust my future with…”  One mistake many singles make when looking for “the one” isNOT taking into consideration if the person of interest is trustworthy of their future…  Anybody can get married, purchase a home with a white picket fence and have two wonderful children, but finding the person who will support, respect, embrace, and push you further into your greatness is somewhat hard to find…  Most singles are looking to be cured of their present loneliness and past brokenness, they never take into consideration whether or not the person is someone “who they are destined to become” can be trusted with…

Trust me when I say “the struggle is real” when pertaining to finding love, it can be hard at times…  It’s hard finding someone who embraces who you were, accepts who you are today and someone strong and secure enough to push you into who you are becoming…   If the person you’re seeking doesn’t possess these three traits, you’re better off single…

So why do I say this, huh?

Well because so many currently married folks are currently miserable folks…  They fell into  (Click “HERE” to read more)

Prison Break: Free To Be Me

Morals, Expectations, Religious Beliefs, and Fear are the four walls many of you are trapped within.  A prison in which your inner being is suffocating and gasping for air… You’re dying inwardly, barely surviving outwardly and each morning you dread getting out of bed because you have to be whom everyone else thinks you should be… You dress yourself in lies and facades, put on a happy face, but the entire time you’re thinking, “I wish I could just be me”.  “The me” that’s not perfect, has issues, screwed up a lil bit, and “the me” who is free to be whoever and whatever they want to be…

Morals taught you who you are is wrong….  Expectations say that you are not good enough…  Religious Beliefs reveals that you are not pleasing…  Fear has hoodwinked you into believing who you are will be rejected…  Because of these things, you are trapped and your soul is dying…  All you want is to be happy and the freedom of being your authentic self, but it comes at a cost…  The cost of disappointing family and friends, being perceived as a failure, not living up to whom God created you to be, and the cost of people walking away…. If only you could be you…

What I know for sure is…  You only have one life to live…  I’ve learned “morals” are masked “fears”…  Fears in which our parents taught and passed down to us…  “Expectations” are masked (Click “HERE” to read more)

How Much For A Piece Of You???

Some of you are nothing but whores…  A prostitute attempting to gain the approval of someone who wouldn’t give a damn if they ever saw your face again….Daily you sell yourself hoping to surpass your last…  Prostituting your looks, body, and sadly your soul…  You’re looking for a “high”; for that pat on the back and to finally feel as though someone wants you…  Every morning you place yourself where you know everyone is looking….  You come back later that day and give yourself to those who barely even remember your name…  Let’s not even talk about your nightly action…   How you stay up late waiting around for someone to stop and start a conversation with you…  How you travel from corner to corner hoping your beauty (Click “HERE” to read more)

I’m Not Where I Should Be…

This blog will hit home for many of you reading today, because the title of this post is something you’ve said once or twice before, or possibly just said today…  Age, color, gender has nothing to do with it, but for some odd reason you believe your life isn’t measuring up…   You envisioned by today you would be in a completely different place in life, but you’re not and it’s frustrating as hell…  Maybe you had a kid at an early age and life detoured…  Maybe your marriage ended and life detoured…  Maybe you lost your job, home, car, pride and life detoured..  It could be various things which have you saying the above…  So if you’re reading and you’ve actually quoted the above, let me ask you a question…  Exactly where is it you should be?  Is it married with kids?  Completed your Doctorate program? President of a Fortune 500 Company? Traveling the world?  More (Click “HERE” to read more)

You Look Better When I’m Drunk…

U.G.L.Y.  You ain’t got no alibi, YOU UGLY!!! YEAH YEAH, YOU UGLY”Bobcat Cheerleaders

Have you ever met someone whose looks are those only a mother could love???  Now beauty is in the eye of the beholder and to be fair, just because someone is CONSIDERED “ugly” to one person doesn’t necessarily mean, they’re “ugly” to the next…   So before you guys go off the deep end because I’ve hit your “G Spot” (Guilt), “ugly” is subjective, so don’t get caught up in your feelings and stop reading…  I think we’ve all met that person that with a few beers, about 3 or 4 shots of Vodka and a blunt, they would be PHINE AS HELL… We would be so ….ed up (I’ll let you fill in the dots because I don’t curse) that we lose all sense of reality, perception, and our hearts true desires…

Many of you are dating/married to some “ugly” as hell people today….  They’re not what you want, need, nor do they possess the ability to give you an orgasm, mentally that is…  You see you’re drunk, but you haven’t had a beer, shot, or a blunt…  You’re drunk on “desperation”, “pleasing your parents”, “thirst”, “fitting in”, “fear (Click “HERE” to read more)

Why Surgery Won’t Fix You…

Changing the “outward” won’t fix the “inward”, but fixing the “inward” will completely change how you see the “outward”… In order to change anything you must commit to it,,, Check out my latest video…

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