If They Knew…

It’s amazing how some people can’t see the value of what they have until it’s gone??? You know how they have the “best” and treat it the “worst”? So let me ask you a few a questions…
If your man not only knew, but accepted the truth you’re an amazing woman; you love him unconditionally; you’re irreplaceable; you’re strong enough to forgive him for all the foul ish he constantly puts you though; would he stop cheating, lying, and abusing your trust and value as a woman???
If your woman not only knew, but accepted the truth you’re an exceptional man; willing to walk through her problems, insecurities, and issues; you love her with the extra pounds, wrinkles and grey hair; you’re willing to overlook she’s cheated, lied, and have tarnished the trust in your relationship; realized there is none like you, would she stop talking fowl to; downgrading; placing you in a box as a man???
If your boss not only knew, but accepted your talents and gifts are rare; your commitment level is untouchable; your knowledge and experience are assets; your leadership skills can be used to further along the group, would she/he pay you what you’re worth; stop sweating you about every little thing; allow you to be free to create and inspire???
If your church not only knew, but accepted the truth your past is behind you; we’ve all sinned and yours are (Click HERE to read more)

There Has Got To Be A Way…

Some of you are at a place where you feel your back is up against the wall… You are tired of life as it is today, but you have not quite figured out how to change it… Maybe your job has you wondering if things are as good as it gets… Maybe your relationship/marriage has you feeling you have reached your lowest… Maybe your finances are constantly in the negative… You have hit rock bottom and right now it seems as though you cannot see a way out of the mess you find yourself in today… Even though you cannot see the way out, you have not lost hope…
You constantly find yourself thinking “There’s got to be a way…”. You know a way to find a better job where people appreciate your gifts and talents… A way to find an escape out of the abusive or dead relationship/marriage you are in… A way to decrease the debt and live a much financially healthy life… There’s got to be a way out of the life style, mentally toxic state you’re currently in… What I know for sure is… There is a way out (Click HERE to read more)

When People Don’t Quite Get You…

Trust me when I say I know how it feels to be the outsider… To be the person people treat differently for no other reason than the differences you bring to the table… Here recently, I’ve been challenged with this very thing… You know the whole feeling of not being asked and overlooked… Honestly, it’s almost like back when I was in high school and the popular kids excluded you from the circle because maybe you were the new kid or didn’t dress a certain way…
As I’ve gotten older, I’ve realized I won’t fit in every circle… I won’t be a part of the groups that seems to be cool… I won’t always be asked to lunch or asked to hang out on the weekends, and this is cool… You see I’ve come to the realization, I’m an exceptional guy surrounded by average people… It took me years to realize this because for most of my life, I made things personal… I took not being asked as a reflection of my greatness, and this is true to a certain degree… I used to take it as I wasn’t (Click HERE to read more)

Not Again

 

So this very day last year you were single… Let’s go even a little bit further, this day 2, 3, 4, 5 or possibly 6 years ago, YOU WERE SINGLE… You swore last year, this day in 2018 you would have a boo.. You’ve grown tired of being the only person at the holiday parties without an escort… The only person within your circle without a bae… You’ve had enough of waking up on Christmas morning without someone lying next to you, no gifts under the tree, no one to wear matching onesie’s with, and no one to purchase all the amazing things you’ve dreamed of giving that special one…
You’re tired of being alone Christmas Eve… Not quite depressed, but close to it because you can’t figure out why God hasn’t blessed you with the one you’ve feel you deserve… You’ve been patient; put in the work to get yourself mentally, financially and physically ready to be given away… You’ve worked on not being envious of those who are in love; not being jealous of the many perceptions of happiness posted (Click HERE to read more)