Dogs Don’t Share Bones…

 

I think we’ve all heard “No dog wants a bone other dogs have licked on…”  For centuries dogs have been used to describe many of the characteristics of a Man… Characteristics like loyalty, being territorial, the inability to commit, the desire to protect, and the unwillingness to share its bone…  It’s something about a bone that both dog and man have a problem taking as his own after a pack of other dogs have licked and sucked on.  In regards to a dog, I doubt if “hygiene” is the problem seeing that a dog uses his tongue as toilet paper, so I would just have to assume it’s the thought of coming in second or possibly third…

I’m blown away when seeing women who have dated or found themselves attracted to more than one man in a circle of friends…  She’s the outsider, have slept with one or two men within the “Brotherhood”, yet she’s confused as to why one of them hasn’t made her his prize.  Sure you can’t help who you fall in love with, but you can control (Click HERE to read more)

5 Signs You’re NOT On A Date…

 

Over the weekend I had one of the most interesting encounters I’ve had in a pretty long time…  Long story short, I thought I was just “hanging out”, however she thought it was a “date”…  So where did things go wrong, right???  Well to be honest, I believe like many of you, she missed the signs slapping her dead in the face…  So that you don’t leave a date feeling as though egg is running down the front of your face, here are “5 Signs You’re NOT On A Date…”

          

  • If he says “I’m going to be at …… around 7 p.m., you’re welcome to join me”, YOU’RE NOT ON A DATE…  Clearly he has plans of hanging out whether you choose to join him or not…  He’s extending the invitation as a courtesy because he evidently enjoys your company, believes you could possibly enhance his evenings, or because there’s a possibility hanging out with you is just like hanging out with “One of the guys”.  What I know for sure is…  Ladies, you need a man who is CLEAR, PRECISE, and a man who PURPOSELY makes it known he wants you in the place with him…  If you are unclear of whether or not you’re on a date, set no expectations of one…  Take your purse with more than your lipstick in it and be prepared to pay for your own drinks and meals…

  • If you’re running late and he doesn’t text nor call to see where you are or if you’re okay, YOU’RE NOT ON A DATE…   Men are born protectors and if there is interest in you and he really wants you in the place, he’s going to at least (Click HERE to read more)

When Men Say…

They Owe You NOTHING!!!

 

I believe I’ve felt every possible emotion there is when it comes to relationships…  I’ve loved hard and wanted to give hard…  I’ve hurt extremely hard and wanted to hurt just as hard…  Like many of you I felt I was owed for the sacrifices, time, commitment; for fighting for the relationship, and for giving the best of me to someone who didn’t appreciate it.   Today I’ve accepted the real truth and sadly to say, they didn’t owe me a damn thing…  it took me years to be honest with myself and accept this truth…   You see there were times I gave not because I was a giver, but because I felt this is what being a “great boyfriend” required…  Requirements of me giving up the things I loved to do, people I loved to be around, and even giving up on the things I knew was divinely orchestrated for me to fulfill…  Never asked directly, nor was I ever forced, however the misconception of the requirements that makes a healthy and happy relationship left me with a bag of regrets…  At the end, I was pissed, but at the wrong person…

The misconception many of us have in regards to relationships is that in order for us to be the best mate, there are times we have to sacrifice who we are (please excuse my English) and to be honest with you, that’s a “Shit Pie” disguised as a Patti Labelle Sweet Potato Pie… If you have to give up your dreams, passions, and who you are for a man/woman, guess what…  YOU’RE WITH THE WRONG PERSON…  You see the wrong person would ask you not always directly, but sometimes through their actions to let go of who you are to fit into their ideal of a relationship…  But the RIGHT not PERFECT person would (Click HERE to read more)

“Three – Lationship”…

So I have this buddy who so happens to be single, God fearing, educated, employed, drug and disease free, financially secure and not bad on the eyes, but he seems to have a problem getting past date number three.  From what he has shared he meets a great deal of women who are truly on their game, looking to settle down, and women who possess the qualities of being a great wife, but after that second date, things seem to go south…  Because these women are truly on their game they notice and pay attention to the red lights flashing right before their eyes…  You know lights like he talks non-stop during the day via text and phone call, but after about 8 p.m. things begin to simmer down like a good ole pot of Spaghetti Sauce…

Being the smart women they are the first question asked is “Are you married??”  As stated before, he’s SINGLE, so nope…  Next question, “Do you have a girlfriend?? Boyfriend??”  (Yeah boyfriend, it’s 2016 folks)  As stated before, he’s SINGLE, so nope…  Many of them stop here, but there’s that one who won’t let it go, so she ask “Are you living with someone???”…  And this is where the plane tends to descend…  He’s (Click HERE to read more)

Wifey Material

Ladies, if you’re with a guy who hasn’t or doesn’t recognize your potential, maybe he’ not the guy for you…  So many of you are trying to convince or persuade your man he should marry you….  You’re supporting his dreams, his needs, his emotions, and some of you are even supporting your man’s habits… He’s living a life filled with the pleasures of a wife; however he hasn’t fulfilled the one requirement to make him a husband…

He doesn’t want to get marry right now, but the lack of his desire hasn’t stopped him from enjoying the benefit…  He has access to your finances, car, apartment/home, and full access to your body whenever he chooses to take a dip…  You believe he’s the one and you’re willing to wait until he recognizes you’re the (Click HERE to read more)

You Hurt Me…

 

In the world today people are either too strong, to heavenly bound, or to full of hell to admit when they’ve been hurt…  Admitting this is like pulling teeth…  Many of you reading today have been hurt by someone who is completely unaware of the pain they’ve caused you all because you weren’t honest…   Either you were afraid to show vulnerability, too proud to express your emotions, or to “High and Lifted” to reveal God still has some work to do in you…

Maybe it’s your marriage that is suffering…  Suffering because your spouse failed to recognize all that you do around the house.  Maybe they forgot your anniversary, birthday, or the day in which you met….  It could be they said you’ve picked up a few or pounds, should lose weight, or possibly you’re eating too much…  Whatever it is, your feelings were hurt and you never shared this…

Maybe it’s your work life that is suffering…      Suffering because your coworker who you trusted betrayed you…  Maybe your boss forgot you were scheduled to be off, didn’t recognize all the extra time and effort you’ve put into making the project work.  It could be you went unnoticed in the restroom and heard others at your job talking amongst themselves about you…  Whatever it is, your feelings were hurt and you never shared this…

Maybe it’s your family life that is suffering…  Suffering because your entire life you felt second best to your other siblings.  Maybe your Mother spoke to you out of anger, your Father (Click HERE to read more)