Wait It Out…

Do you remember missing curfew; attempting to sneak in the house, but only to find your Mom waiting in the dark for you? I mean it didn’t matter how many minutes you were passed curfew, she patiently waited for you to come creeping through the door. Over the years I have learned you have to learn from those moments. You have to patiently wait in the dark to turn on the light… This requires trusting your instincts and allowing the truth to reveal itself… You know that feeling that keeps on saying “Something isn’t right…”. Many of you currently doubt that inner voice and it’s causing you to stress out, continue to stay in toxic situations, or it’s flat out messing with your esteem…

So why do we doubt our instinct? Well it could be because of several reason, but most times it’s because we haven’t healed from past experiences and we’re carrying around baggage that causes us to question everything. Because I have reconciled the experiences of my past, I can see things clearer these days than ever. I can see when things aren’t right; suspect; or when someone is covering up dirt done in the dark. Have I always been here, absolutely NOT!!!! I can remember (Click HERE to read more)

25th Year Anniversary, “Why Did He Do It?”

In honor of the 25th Anniversary of “Why Did He Do It?”, I’ve release a special anniversary edition of the song and I wanted you to hear it first…

Available on Digital Media outlets for streaming and download…

Fitting In Is Overrated…

So over the weekend I finished Netflix “Sex Education” and I must admit, it surprised me… The cast is amazing; concept is original, and throughout each episode there are so many hidden treasures… The standout character for me is Lily… A teenage girl who wants to have sex so bad until every guy she encounters become a target… Closer to the end of the season, it’s revealed as to why she desperately seeks sex… She wants to fit in; not feel as though she missing out or being left behind… Now I can honestly relate to her because at 16, I felt exactly the same… That was the year I transitioned from “virgin” to “sexual genius”, but looking back today, I realized just how clueless I was in regards to fitting in…

Many of you are just like Lily and the 16 year old me… Maybe it is not sex you’re seeking, but you are seeking the approval and validation of others… You want to “fit in”, not feel as though you’re missing out and being left behind… For whatever reason you feel like the outcast… Like you’re not the “cool kid”… So let me ask you a question… What is it you feel you’re missing??? Is it this exciting and extraordinary life??? Is it sex; marriage; relationship??? Do you feel like you’re not pretty/handsome enough??? Fashionable enough??? What is it about them or it that has you feeling like you want some of it??? Here’s one of the hidden truths I learned from “Sex Education”, “Fitting In Is Overrated”…

Many of you day in and day out compare yourself to everyone around you… You’re on Social Media comparing your life to the perception of success of others… You’re taking what you’ve done in the past and comparing (Click HERE to read more)