More Than Friends, Less Than A Couple…

Have you ever found yourself wondering where you stand in a person’s life? You know like you don’t quite love him/her, but you’re far past liking him/her…. The two of you seem to enjoy each others company; have much in common and there have even been times when you could complete his/her sentence because you just know them like that…Now we’re grown folks here, so no need in beating around the bush…. The two of you have even had sex without expectations, but since the encounter you find yourself maybe wanting to take it to the next level, but don’t want to come off clingy or needy.

So the two of you are more than friends, but less than a couple… In today’s terms this would fall in the category of “It’s complicated”…. Maybe he/she have expressed a relationship is not what (Click HERE to read more)

It’s “Cuffing Season”, Any Takers?

So it’s that time of year when phone calls, text messages and possibly even emails are received from people maybe you haven’t heard from in weeks, months, or possibly even years… People who are looking for comfort or to be quite frank, just some good ole sex… People you’ve known and even those you regret ever meeting. Whomever they may be, they’re seeking a warm familiar place and you’re on their list… Now this list is seasonal, come February/March your time will expire and you will resume your title as a “Notch On His/Her Belt”.

Unfortunately for some of you reading, you’re going to entertain and possibly even go back to a place which left you feeling less than you deserve. A place in which you felt disrespected; unappreciated and undervalued… A place (Click HERE to read more)

Wake Up Fellas…

Yesterday I wrote a post “What Happened Women?”, so to be fair, today I want to encourage men to WAKE UP…. Women have changed, some for the worst, but there are innumerable who have changed for the better…. So if you’re going to keep the one you have; get the one you want, I strongly suggest YOU WAKE THE FUCK UP…

Wake up fellas, women no longer need you for your money…. In a world where women are Business Owners, Executives, Creative Designers and Future Shapers, your money is no longer needed or required. Women are now calling the shots in the office and in their homes, so if you’re going to step to this woman, you better have something to offer other than a 12 inch dick and a 6 figure salary…. Educated women isn’t anything new… Women whether they’ve (Click HERE to read more)

You’re Making It Personal…

So this morning I was asked “Are you intimidated by me?’. Now this comes from a 40+ year old successful, brilliant, and extraordinary woman… Honestly, she checks off all the boxes for an “Amazing Wife”, but unfortunately for her, I wasn’t responding in a manner how she felt a man should respond to a woman with all she has to offer.

So as I processed this question, I thought about many of you women… You see she checks off all the boxes for an “Amazing Wife”, but she also checks off the boxes for an “Aggressive and Annoying Woman”. Now I’m all for going (Click HERE to read more)(

Single During A Pandemic…

Sometimes being single sucks… I mean it really sucks especially during times like these… You’re home alone; have watched everything on Netflix, AppleTV, Hulu, HBO Max and all the other channels … You’re closer with your family now… You’ve attended more “Virtual Happy Hour’s” than you’ve hit up actual “Happy Hour’s” in your life… You’re halfway through the Bible; sorted and donated all the things you’ve been hoarding for years and after all of this, you’re still alone… Hormones are raging and Pornhub ain’t doing the trick… You’ve had time to develop the best version of yourself, but this “New You” is trapped (Click HERE to read more)

You Haven’t Earned It…

Some of you at this very moment are giving energy to people who hasn’t earned it…. Either you’re wasting energy trying to figure out why they’re acting a certain way; whether or not he/she is upset with you; whether or not he/she likes you, or you’re wasting energy changing who you are for someone who doesn’t give a fuck about you, YUP A FUCK ABOUT YOU…

So many times we give energy to people who haven’t earned it…. You know those people who haven’t invested anything into our future…. People (Click HERE to read more)

“God’s Way” (A cappella)