The “Dating Game”…

So this past Saturday, I celebrated nine years of not only being single, but 9 years of rediscovering exactly who John Patrick Adams is… There have been many challenges to conquer; lots of forgiving and most importantly a tremendous amount of self-forgiveness. I can remember starting this journey as if it was just yesterday… I pledged and conquered no dating, porn, masturbation or sex for 6 months. I like to consider this my “Purge”.

You see sex makes you vulnerable… It transports you to places right after in which you sometimes feel weak… Weak enough to travel  (Click HERE to read more)

2020: Waking Up Alone On New Year’s Day!

So for the past 9 years I’ve woken up alone on New Year’s Day… It would seem by now this wouldn’t bother me, but it does… Now don’t get me wrong I’m happy being single, have no regrets, and wouldn’t change anything if I could… But like many of you singles, 9 years later I still desire the company of someone I find interesting… 2020 instantly causes me to look back in retrospect; to look at all the times I didn’t wake up alone. So, as I end one year and prepare to begin another, I want to share a tip that has proven to be very beneficial for me…

Instead of seeing the burden of being alone, see the freedom of being alone… I can remember when I was in a relationship and waking up on New Year’s Day with someone I really didn’t like as a person… So you’re thinking, why did you stay? Well like many of you, I didn’t want to be alone during the holiday season; I thought I needed a relationship to complete me, so I traded “peace” for a “piece”. I can remember (Click HERE to read more)

NEW PODCAST: “Live On The “It’s The A.D.D. Show””

The cast of Brown Liquor & Cigars joins Robi Nickoli on the “It’s The A.D.D. Show”… In this interview Robi drills the fellas on many of their truths discussed in previous episodes of the podcast… If you’re weak, this isn’t the episode for you… If you’re saved, sanctified and filled with the holy ghost, this isn’t the episode for you…  Nothing is off the table… From Booty Licking to Cum sipping, Robi is taking the cast for a ride.

Check this out and make sure you tune in every Wednesday at 9 p.m. on ThaAfterParty.com/SideB to catch Robi weekly…

It’s Loud In Here…

Many of you live in a noisy world… A world that is so noisy you’re unable to hear that still voice speaking to you… Maybe the noise is your job; family; friends; a relationship or a marriage… Maybe the noise is fear; doubt; low self-esteem… Whatever or wherever the noise is or coming from, you’re unable to hear what your next move should be…

Every day I purposely make it my job to turnoff the noise… I turn it off by not getting involved in conversations with malicious intent… I turn if off by carefully choosing those I surround myself with… I turn off the noise by not listening to doubters, but those who dream bigger than anyone else could (Click HERE to read more)

What Is…

There are times in life when we look back and think, “What if I would have…?”. You know like maybe saying yes to something or someone… How about investing in something or someone who appears today successful. What if you would have pursued a certain career; held off on getting married; not had children? What would your life be like if you would have taken a left opposed to that quick right?

Well it probably wouldn’t include many of the “What is”… (Click HEREto read more)