Oh, So You Want A Reaction From Me?

 

I’m learning more and more each day, everything doesn’t deserve a response… The other day I was direct messaged on IG…  The person starts out by saying “I don’t know you, but….” and proceeded to share with me unwarranted and unwanted thoughts…  Now don’t get me wrong, nothing was said disrespectful…  Nothing was said to cause me to lose any sleep over, however the person wanted something I wasn’t going to give them, A RESPONSE… You see the message was designed to lure me into a conversation…  A means of getting to know me better…  A way to slip or slide into my world, but I chose to keep the door closed…  They’re aware I received the message because of the “read” notification underneath the message in which was sent to me, so don’t think by any means would I go without giving some indication I received the message…

So why didn’t I respond???  Good question and thanks for asking…  I didn’t respond because the person said it best, we don’t know each other…  Secondly, I chose (Click HERE to read more)

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You Got Me!!!

 

So this past Saturday I had to make a quick WalMart run to purchase some body wash…  Of course I was on the go, so I shopped at a WalMart that wasn’t my normal store…  I walk in, head to the hygiene section, picked up the body wash, paid and left…  Now in my normal WalMart I don’t have to guess because I’ve been in there so many times, I know exactly where everything is placed.  When I picked up the body wash I noticed the price was different than what I’m accustomed to paying, so I just assumed WalMart did an ole rollback on the prices…  Long story short, I make it to the gym, workout and when it’s time for me to shower, I noticed I picked up the wrong body wash… The packaging was exactly the same, but it was a completely different brand, smell, and the overall results didn’t meet the standards of what I’m accustomed to…

So where am I going with this???  Well thanks for asking…  Some of you have picked up a package based on its looks, but now you realize it’s not what you thought it was…  Some of you women are dating men because their packaging looks familiar; pleasing to the eye; and enticing… You saw there was a price reduction (YOU SAW THE SIGNS), but you ignored them and made the purchase…  Now you’re dating a man in which you feel stuck with until either he breaks you out in a rash (low self-esteem, worth; leaves your broken financially, mentally, emotionally and spiritually, etc…) or until you get tired of feeling dry, irritated, and feeling less than what you’re accustomed to and deserve.  You based (Click HERE to read more)

The Things “Black Women” Take For Granted…

 

So this morning at the gym I noticed a woman who had evidently gotten lip injections…  Now I’ve seen her there before and to be honest, she’s quite beautiful as is…  Now by the title, you can probably tell already she’s not an African American Woman, but a sister from a Caucasian Mother…  As I sat there, I began to think about all of my sistas who take for granted what women of other races believe are gifts… You know those full lips, big hips, full breast and a booty that will make your head turn…  Those naturally curly locks and the silky dark skin…  At some point black women were made to feel what truly is beautiful, needs improvement…

I love when I see a woman rocks her natural fro or even a college cut…  A woman who feels strong enough in her own appearance to not enhance it with weave or wigs… I love a woman accentuate her lips regardless to their size, bring attention to her eyes regardless to how wide, and a woman who ain’t afraid to show off her curves… But sadly to say, at some point black women were made to feel what truly is beautiful, needs improvement… 

Many of you today complain about your hips being too big, yet plastic surgeons are making millions (Click HERE to read more)

So You’re 30+, Now What???

 

So you’re 30+…  Ready to settle down, not necessarily marry, but something serious…  You’ve had more “One Night” stands, “Booty Calls”, and “Bad Relationships” than you want to admit…  You’re too old to continue tolerating the games, but too young not to play them…  So what is a person your age supposed to do?  Are you cursed?  Supposed to settle for whatever comes your way?  Supposed to wait on God to send you the man/woman of your dreams?  What exactly is someone your age supposed to do???

Taking inventory…  Some of your friends who got married in their twenties are now divorced in their thirties, forties, and fifties…  When you look at what’s out there, it’s like you have to pick the lesser of two evils…  Either it’s going to be “Baby Momma Drama” or “Unemployed”….   “Insecurities” or “Controlling Behavior”…  “Drugged” or “Diseased”… “Separated” or “Open Relationship”…  It’s like there’s no winning when it comes to dating, so what is a gal/guy like you and your age supposed to do?? 

You’re focused, driven, passionate about life, and determined to be better than those before you…  You’re mentally and financially stable, educated, and engineered to achieve greater…  You’re spiritually grounded, in touch (Click HERE to read more)

You’re So Vain!!!

 

It’s funny how your Ex thinks everything you’ve done or doing has everything to do with him/her…  He/she believes you losing weight; dressing better, looking and living better is all because you’re wanting to make him/her jealous…  He/she believes you not answering the phone, not attending functions and not going to places you used to is all because you’re avoiding him/her…  He/she believes everything good happening in your life is because you’re trying to show him/her you can do better without them… 

They’ve convinced themselves everything you’re doing is to prove a point…  A point you don’t need him/her…  A point you can live life without him/her…  A point  “one man’s/woman trash is another man’s/woman’s treasure”.  A point you can find someone who will do what he/she chose not to.  They’re so vain they’ve convinced themselves into believe everything you’ve done or doing has everything to do with him/her…

What your “Ex” fails to realize is nothing you’ve done or doing has anything to do with him/her…  They fail to realize you got tired of the ish…  Tired of dealing with the lies, cheating, and the lack of desire to make you feel like a man/woman…  They fail to realize the day they walked out, is the day you stepped in… At that particular moment maybe you couldn’t  see what was (Click HERE to read more)