The Mindset Of Happiness…

What makes you happy??? Do you even know??? Have you ever thought about it???

There are so many people in the world unsure of what truly makes their hearts smile… For some, it’s a new car, house, or designer bag… For others its those memorable moments with family and friends… Happiness is subjective; has no set definition, and it’s something that comes and goes… But again, what makes you happy??? Are you even happy???

I’m learning more each day to take life as it comes… If there are good days, appreciate them… If there are bad days, learn from them… Whatever life throws my way, I’m learning to find the best in it and not allow it to define or destroy me… Happiness is something that is driven most times by what is happening (Click HERE to read more)

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If Only I Would Have…

Have you ever wanted to say something, yet you kept quiet??? You know like, “Don’t speak to me that way”; “I refuse to continue allowing you to treat me this way”: “I deserve so much better than this”, or how about “It’s over, I can’t do this anymore”??? In “Real Time” these things cross our minds, yet many times we allow fear to conquer us because we aren’t quite ready to make the necessary changes if things don’t go our way…

It’s amazing how when looking back in hindsight we know all of the things we should have said… The things in which could have changed the relationship for the better or changed our future… Things that were way overdue, yet we kept quiet to keep the peace or PIECE… If only we knew then what we know now, we (Click HERE to read more)

No Invites…

So this morning, out of nowhere it hit me… I didn’t receive ONE invite to a Super Bowl Party… Honestly, if I wouldn’t have seen all the publicity on TV, it wouldn’t have even crossed my mind… Now don’t get me wrong, I wasn’t bothered by not receiving any invitations because honestly speaking, I’ve caused it… See I’m the guy who normally doesn’t show up… I get invites and then at the last minute, I decide to chill at the house… So getting no invites is perfectly fine with me and oh yeah, I’m not a sports fan at all…

But I can remember when it would have bothered me… It would have bothered me because I would have felt like I was missing out on something… Back in the day I would go to things that I really didn’t like just to be in the mix… You know to get that selfie with people you really don’t like… To be able to say (Click HERE to read more)

A Changed Man…

I’m a firm believer God is more than able to do anything… He can take what seems to be our greatest extreme and turn it into the extraordinary… I also believe when it comes to change, God is able to change any woman or man, but he or she must desire the change…

Over the weekend I had a conversation with a friend whose husband is a complete uttered mess… Of course, the story I’ve received is one-sided and there are always three sides to any story, but when listening to her, I couldn’t help but think “Why in the hell are you with this dude???”. According to her words, he’s a changed man… But when watching her body language; feeling the nervous energy she constantly gives off, it seems as though he’s still the same, just not acting as horribly as he once did…

Honestly, I believe she truly wants this man to change… She wants him to be the husband she thought it was… To be the father he promised he would be… To be the man God created him to be… However, because (Click HERE to read more)

When A…

Yesterday I was chatting with a friend and I always find it to be amazing how the same exact action can impact two people completely different…

Let’s take cheating for example…

When a man cheats, 8 out of 10 women make it personal… They allow his actions to define their worth and many times walk away feeling as though they are not enough. Now how can something he did become so defining in their lives??? Well because when in a relationship, women want to feel as though they’re more than enough to satisfy the one they love. Now don’t get me wrong, a woman would be quite (Click HERE to read more)

3 Truths About An Ex…

So let’s get to it…

· Your Ex Is In Love With Who You Were: If we could only go back to the times before the lies; cheating; deceit; mishandling of money, and the betrayal. If we could only go back to when we first met and you were smiling; happy; having sex 3 or 4 times a day; when there were “Date Nights”, and when you were proud to call him/her your Man/Woman. Most times when a person is contemplating returning to the very thing they’ve run from, they’re wanting to return to the good old days, because these were the days when he/she felt love. Days when things were pure and honest (not for some of you), and the days before you uncovered the skeletons in your closet.

What I know for sure is… After a relationship is over, you’re no longer the person you once was. Some of you have taken the lessons of that relationship and used them as a syllabus for life. There are those of you who have bottled up the negative and drink a shot of its poison each day, which is preventing you from healthy future relationships. Your EX wants the person he/she first met because this is who they fell in love with you. If you’ve matured and no longer willing to accept their foolishness and games, they don’t want you… If you’ve realized your worth and value, they don’t want you. If you’re still the fool you were back then, they’re happy to have you back home…

· Your Ex Is Keeping You From Your Next: What is it about your Ex that has you wanting to go back??? Is it the sex? The way he/she treated you??? Is it fear??? Not wanting to learn someone new??? Many of you are your own worst enemy when it comes to dating. You’re trapped in the thought of making something that is doomed to fail work. Maybe your Ex was amazing, which leaves me only (Click HERE to read more)

How Hard Did Aging Hit You???

So there’s this new Social Media challenge going on titled “How Hard Did Aging Hit You”… Normally I don’t think twice about participating in the foolery of Social Media, but I decided this time to give it a try… So I posted the above pic… As I looked at the pic, I saw so many things… The guy from 2009 lacked confidence; suffered from low self-esteem; underestimated himself; constantly found himself in toxic relationships and his thinking was horrible. He doubted himself, sought the approval of others and his heart was filled with bitterness, anger, and hatred… Boy what a difference time can make…

The guy in 2019 doesn’t take things as seriously as before. Realizes people are fickle; has the right to change their mind and not like him… He also realizes relationships whether they are intimate or platonic are a direct reflection of the man he is… He understands holding onto anger, resentment and hate only destroys his future not (Click HERE to read more)