Diagnosed…

 

 

This week I wanted to write about some of the idiotic questions people tend to ask…  If you haven’t checked out “I’m Overqualified”, stop now and go read it…  One question I find interesting isn’t always asked by people who are married or in a relationship, but mainly by people who are single…

“How do you cope with being Single?”

Now the last time I checked, “Single” wasn’t listed as a life threatening disease, there are no ailments or outbreaks, and it’s not something in which can be transmitted through contact.  For many people, being single is a self-diagnosed life threatening disease with a possible cure known as “relationship”, but it hasn’t been discovered.   It causes dehydration known as “thirst” and because they’re uncertain of when the cure will be found, the toxic “desperation” is poisoning their future…

There are risk for these self-diagnosed people…  They face taking on the mentality “Something must be wrong with me”, “There are no good men/women  (Click “HERE” to read more)

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Ain’t That Some Spit…

Disrespect has levels. There’s name calling, which can be ugly. But as long as there is no touching involved, many people can let this roll off their back. The name calling can escalate to cursing at the person and if things really get out of hand, bodily contact is involved. Not many people will just stand there and get hit, punched or slapped. This brings disrespect to another level. But then…there is the ultimate form of disrespect. I can’t speak for everyone on this one, but I can definitely speak for myself. I’ve never had this happen to me before, but if you want to see me go from 0 to 100 in less than 1 second, then spitting would send me over the edge. That’s exactly what happened with high school baseball coach, Justin Hill.

Now, you may be thinking Justin (Click “HERE” to read more)

Signs Your Woman Is Cheating…

It has been said “Women are better liars than men”, whether this is true or not, I don’t know.  I’ve also heard “if you will lie, you will cheat and steal”, sadly to say, this was quoted by one of the biggest liars I know…    So if women are better liars, does this mean their better cheaters as well? Hmmmmm…..There are three ways in which a woman can be found cheating…  You have the woman who’s on the outside sleeping with someone who’s involved; the woman on the inside sleeping with someone on the outside, and then there’s the woman that may not be physically sleeping with someone, but she’s being banged everyday mentally….

Today I want to talk about the woman who’s being banged mentally…  You see she doesn’t really consider this cheating because she hasn’t taken it to the next level… it’s just innocent flirting, blind flattery, and harmless compliments…  The guy she’s cheating with could be a co-worker, guy at the restaurant she dines at daily for lunch, a church member, or the dude she affectionately calls her brother…   Now I believe men and women can be friends without anything ever going down, but only if both parties’ motives are pure….  How (Click “HERE” to read more)

I’m Overqualified…

 

This morning as I was searching for something to write about, I ran across a caption I felt summed up my love life perfectly as well as many of the readers here at JohnPatrickAdams.com

“People ask me, “Why are you single?  You’re attractive, intelligent and creative.” My reply is “I’m overqualified””

Okay I get it, I’m attractive, smart, possess the gene of a creative genius, but what does any of this have to do with me being a relationship at this stage in my life??? ABSOLUTELY NOTHING…   If you know anything about me, you’ve probably figured out I’m a very private guy…  I really don’t like people in my business and I keep things surface most times, but it irritates me greatly when people ask “Why are you single?”  Honestly sometimes I want to ask them, “Why are you married?”  You’re unhappy, he/she is unhappy, and the last time you had sex was when you conceived your last child who is now six…  But I digress…

Married, nosey, and interested people (you’re not slick), don’t get it… Dating is a full time job with crappy benefits…   It requires time, energy, and lots of money…  If you’re (Click “HERE” to read more)

Thirsty Man…

Over the weekend I posted a snippet of my latest video “Been There, Done That, Wrote A Book About It: Independence” on Instagram. A young man I’ve known pretty much his entire life commented on the video.  I asked the question “Has “Independent Woman” killed Chivalry?” and answered the question “No”, but he disagreed.  Now take into consideration, he’s 22 years old and experiencing life from a different angle than most of us.  He explains that women within in his agree group consider “Chivalry” or being a gentleman as a sign of thirst.  Now I must admit, I was bothered while reading this, but I’m not surprised.

It’s sad to hear some of the views of the generations that will precede many of us are so jacked up, but why is this?  Why is “Chivalry” viewed as “Thirst” by younger ladies?  Well it’s because of the bitter, broken, border line butch generation raising them today aka “Independent Woman”.  Can a woman do everything a man can do?  Yep (With the exception of reproduce)…  Can a (Click “HERE” to read more)

Do It With Passion…

 

What is the one thing you enjoy doing without prompting? For some of you reading this, you may even have more than one. It’s the thing that effortlessly brings a smile to your face, wakes you up in the middle of the night and something you may even do for free. What is this “thing” I’m speaking of? Passion. Maybe it’s singing, sports, teaching, creating or healing. No matter who you are, everyone has a passion. The question is whether or not you’re operating in it.

It amazes me how many people neglect the things they are innately drawn to. We let work, family, friends, spouses, girlfriends, boyfriends and everything else under the sun deter us away from what we love. (Click “HERE” to read more)