You’re Supposed To Be Married…

 

Can someone please tell me where it’s written the age of a person dictates their marital status???  By a certain age you should be married with kids and living in the big house with the white picket fence???  Do you know where I can find this???  Well if you don’t, why are you living your life according to it???

Many of you reading this post are depressed all because you aren’t married…  You thought by now you would be married with kids and living what you call a dream…  You thought you’d be building a brighter future with the man/woman you’ve dreamed of your entire life, but this isn’t the case…  You’re single and with each passing day you’re getting older, feeling less marketable/desirable, and you’re beginning to lose hope…  Hope of having children…  Hope of having someone to grow old with…  Hope of ever finding or being found by the one you’re destined to be with…  You were supposed to be married by now, but guess what, YOU’RE NOT…

Some of you have been married, but it failed… You married someone maybe because (Click HERE to read more)

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Are Single’s Supposed To Be Unattractive???

Singles, don’t you just hate being asked “Are you married??? Are you in a relationship??? Why are you single???”… If you do, this is the video for you…

So What Does “Single Man” Mean In 2017???

 

Unfortunately Ladies, you aren’t the only ones feeling some kind of way about being single…  Contrary to popular belief, there are some men who are all up in their feelings because there’s no weekend boo, no holiday love, no one to celebrate their accomplishments with, and no one around to support and cheer on in their pursuit of happiness…  Just like women, men are finding it somewhat difficult to find a good woman…  A woman who understands he’s not looking for a wife, but a partner…  You know a partner in building a better future…  A woman who is willing to stick around when things are rough; willing to get her hands dirty while digging through the rubble to find the diamond… There are men looking for a woman to climb the stairs of success with, not use her as one…  But these men are lost in the shuffle of men many of you are currently seeking or involved with…

So what does “Single Man” mean in 2017???  Well it depends on who you ask…  Based on the age of the man, the color of his skin; whether or not he has children or if he’s been married and currently divorced determines how “Single Man” is defined… “Single Man” is defined by the physical traits, financial status and even his size, and I’m not talking about his dingus…  Just like women, men are judged based on their weight and appearance…  If he’s an overweight guy, it’s more excusable as to why he is single…  If he’s less appealing to the beholder of his looks, it’s more excusable as to why he is single…  But if a man is tall, dark, physically fit, handsome, never been married, childless, and he so happens to be over the age of 30, sadly to say, he’s either “gay” or a “player”…

For the “Single Woman” over the age of 30…  “Single Man” has become a piece of meat…  Women (Click HERE to read more)

You Wanna Hear “It’s All His Fault…”

 

It’s amazing how many of you women want to hear “It’s his fault…”   You want to be told it’s all his fault you’re damaged goods; unable to trust; bitter; overweight and overeating; a single mother, and so many other excuses many of you are using to justify you being the bitter, insecure, broken, and impossible to trust woman you are… You want to hear he’s to blame for you feeling insecure with yourself…  You want to hear it’s all his fault you didn’t see the signs of something that was slapping you in the face… That leaving you for the girl with the good hair is the reason you feel inferior to white women… Now in no way is this post meant to bash you women, but at some point you’re going to have to own up for your own ish…  And when I say “ish”, I mean the state in which you find yourself today… 

Some of you are rude, intolerable, mean and borderline the notorious word you hate being referred to as…  Your attitudes are wack, your credit scores are jacked and you’re always on defense because you feel you’re under attack…  You loved a man, he hurt and broke you, and now he’s moved on, but sadly to say, you’re still holding on…  You’re holding onto what he did or didn’t do…  You’re holding (Click HERE to read more)

Repost: Waking Up Alone New Years Day…

So for the past 6 years I’ve been single…   It would seem by now waking up alone on New Year’s Day wouldn’t bother me, but it does…  Now don’t get me wrong I’m happy being single, have no regrets, and wouldn’t change anything if I could…  But like many of you singles, I still desire the company of someone I find interesting…  So as I end one year and prepare to begin another, I want to share a tip I find very helpful during times like these…

Instead of seeing the burden of being alone, see the freedom of being alone…  I can remember when I was in a relationship and waking up on New Year’s Day with someone I really didn’t like as a person…  So you’re thinking, so why did you stay?  Well like many of you, I didn’t want to be alone during the holiday season; I thought I needed a relationship to complete me, so I traded (Click HERE to read more)

Relationship Status: STILL SINGLE…

 

It’s always during this time of year I reflect on just how blessed I am…  I can honestly remember when I regretted the holidays…  Even though my life was great, I was far from happy…  The reason for my “unhappiness” wasn’t because I felt I had my needs and not my wants…  It wasn’t because I wanted to be in a relationship, but it was because I found myself trapped in a relationship that was toxic, unhealthy, and emotionally draining…  Like many people, I covered my unhappiness to the point in which I was drowning…   I disguised just how miserable I was with buying gifts, hosting dinners, and attending every Christmas party I was invited to…  I can remember before getting into that relationship, how I wanted so badly to be in one…  How I would have given anything to NOT have to sit in front of the fire place NOT cuddled up, and watching movies alone…  Before I thought I was missing out on life and love, but boy was I wrong….

I was wrong because I thought a relationship would make me happy…  That falling asleep on Christmas Eve and waking up on Christmas morning lying next to someone was going to make me happy…  I thought NOT attending Christmas parties alone was going to make me happy…  I thought going Christmas shopping and feeling the excitement and energy of the holiday with someone was going to make me happy, but again I was wrong…  I had to learn happiness is my responsibility and it should never (Click HERE to read more)