Who’s Yo Daddy???

I think we’ve all watched an episode of “The Maury Povich Show” where he reveals the results of a paternity test…  I mean it’s kinda funny watching as the father sits there denying he’s the father while the mother jumps up and down shouting “Look at him/her, they have the same nose and eyes”…  As the show progresses, one of the most disheartening moments is when Maury says “The test results shows you are NOT the father”…  The mother was certain it was his child by the resemblance she thought the man and child shared, but unfortunately the two don’t share the same DNA…

So where am I going with this???  Well glad you asked…  Just use your spiritual minds for a second…  If God was a guest on “The Maury Povich Show” and a paternity test was taken to reveal whether or not he was your spiritual paternal father, some of you would be disappointed in the results…  For the world you put on facades to make you look like him, however the two of you don’t share the same spiritual DNA…  You see some of you profess to be Christians, yet you act nothing like the one you call your Father and Brother… Now this is not a sanctimonious blog, however I’m so over those of you who profess to be Christ and God like, yet you present God in a manner no one would want to serve or love…

So what am I talking about???  Well glad you asked this too…  Some of you are the most judgmental people God ever created and sadly to say, you claim to judge because of your so-called connection with God… You judge people on the way in which he/she looks, acts, dress, places they go, and places they’ve been…  You’re the first to cast people to hell for the sins in which you are not committing or those in which you are struggling with…  Sadly to say, this is not how the one you call Father or Brother works…  You see they (Click HERE to read more)

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She’s An “Alpha Dog”…

 

So yesterday I couldn’t help overhearing a conversation two women were having at the table next to where I was sitting…  From what I could tell, one of the women (single) were having some relationship issues, so the other woman (married) was giving her opinion on the situation… To be honest, I really think the married woman wanted me to join in on the conversation by the volume in which she chose to give her response, but I digressed and kept it moving…

As I sat there, I couldn’t help but hearing “Girl, you have to be an Alpha Dog, but know when to be obedient”..,  WTF???, and the “F” ain’t for “Fudge”…  Now if a man told a woman to be “obedient”, not only would all hell break loose, but her weave would met from the heat of hell breaking loose …  Now I get the whole “Alpha Dog” thing, but no one, whether you are male or female should ever take on the mindset of being “obedient”…  YOU ARE NOT A CHILD OR A DOG!!!!

Now one thing that gets me fired up about women and especially married women is they think they know what a man wants and has the best advice on how to get a man…  The single woman in this situation I know personally…  She’s beautiful, super smart, a fashionista and at her core  (Click HERE to read more)

Pieces Of “The Perfect One”…

 

So yesterday I was chatting with a buddy of mine and he shared some things going on in his life…  Outside of the normal hustle and bustle, I thought this guy had somewhat of a normal life, but boy was I surprised…  He has an amazing job, he’s super intelligent; has a wife, kiddos, and a girlfriend…  YUP, A GIRLFRIEND…  Now he caught me off guard with this one, but hey no judgment here…  As we continued to talk and he continued to share his journey, he said something that really stuck with me…  “One person can never be your everything, so why make them your only?” Now whether or not I completely agree with this is irrelevant, that’s his truth and I appreciate the fact he’s found and living it…  He believes what his wife lacks, his girlfriend packs…  For him, he’s taking the best of them to make the person woman in his life…  It’s almost like a puzzle, he’s combining pieces to make the masterpiece…

As ludicrous as this may sound, I believe the reason this stuck with me is because there is some truth to it… So let me ask those of you who are either married or currently in a relationship…  Does the one you’re with check off everything on your list???  Be honest with yourself… Is there anything you would tweak about him/her??? Anything you want him/her to possess that they don’t???  Well I know there are some of you who believe your mate has everything you want, but does he/she view you the same???  PROBABLY NOT!!!!  No matter (Click HERE to read more)

You Ain’t Tired Yet…

 

People always ask me, “John, when do I know?”  and my response is, “You’ll know when you’re tired of it”… 

One of my biggest mistakes in my past is NOT enjoying where I was at that particular moment… Just like many of you I’ve been in relationships, worked jobs, attended churches and have been a part of some pretty crappy stuff…  The entire time I was a part of it, just like many of you, I complained about it…  I complained about not being happy, nothing going in the direction I wanted, and about how things could be so much better…   I knew I should have walked away, but I stayed and not only did I stay, I constantly reminded myself just how miserable I was…  You see, I should have made the best of the situation seeing that I wasn’t going anywhere…  I should have found the light at the end of the tunnel, saw the glass as half full opposed to half empty, but just like many of you reading, I allowed myself to drown in a pool of unhappiness in which I was filling myself… 

Looking back in hindsight, I now see I was responsible for my unhappiness…  Yeah I’m the one to blame for staying in situations that added no value to my life…  I could have easily walked away, but there were things that (Click HERE to read more)

“Love” Works That Way…

 

 

Whether you’re male/female, black/white, gay/straight or skinny/fat, at the core of you is the desire to be truly accepted for who you are and to be loved regardless of who you are… “Love” is something many of you are clueless to how it feels, therefore you find yourselves in situations in which “love” hurts horribly…  I’ve been in love…  I’ve been in what I thought was love…  And I’ve also dealt with situations in which there was no love…  “Love” is something we all want, but if love makes #bae lie, cheat, hit or kill, don’t love me just leave me the hell alone… 

Today I want to share with you 4 things I’ll be damn I allow love to bring into my life…

If love makes you “lie”, don’t love me, just leave me the hell alone…  What I know for sure is…  “Love” may not keep someone from lying to you, but it will keep them from holding onto the lie…  It’s something about lying to the person in which you love that makes your conscious uneasy…  Initially the other person may believe you and move on, but because of your own guilt, you just can’t live with the lie.  When you lie, your conscious eats away at you because of the love for that person…  You may have lied, but eventually you will come forth with the truth…  “Love” works that way…

If love makes you “cheat”, don’t love me, just leave me the hell alone…  What I know for sure is…  “Love” may not keep someone from looking at booty, tits, and even wondering what it would feel like to get all up in that, but it will keep them from going through with it…  It’s something about cheating on the person in which you love that makes your conscious uneasy…  Initially (Click HERE to read more)

Should A Woman Approach A Man???

Should a woman approach a man? Ask him out on a date? Does it make her look desperate or weak??? Check out my video and find out my thoughts…

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The “Double Standards” Of Women…

 

Fellas, do you sometimes feel women have double standards?  They’re able to get away with a lot more because they’re women?  Do you ever feel women have greater expectations and have set higher standards for men to follow than themselves?  Well this post is for you…

Here are 6 areas in which SOME or MOST women have DOUBLE STANDARDS

Lies:

When a man tells a lie, according to a woman he’s trying to protect himself and cover up his dirt…  When a woman tells a lie, according to her, she’s trying to protect his ego, avoid shattering his pride, and keeping from him feeling as though he’s not a man….

Cheating:

When a man cheats, according to a woman it’s because he’s unable to keep his Johnson in his pants…  He’s a whore, dog, and lack the gene to commit to one woman…  When a woman cheats, according to her, it’s because he is emotionally unavailable; the other man made her feel beautiful, needed, and desired…  She’s not a whore or a slut, she’s a woman with emotional needs her man was unwilling to provide…

Jobless:

When a man is unemployed for an extended period of time, according to a woman it’s because he’s not looking hard enough.  He’s lazy, immature, a user, (Click HERE to read more)