So this past Saturday I had lunch with a buddy who’s currently in the final stages of his divorce… For the past 13 years he’s been married to what he considered the “Love Of His Life”… 13 years, 3 kids, and countless arguments later, they’ve decided to call it a quits… Over the past year, they’ve placed themselves on an emotional roller coaster filled with love; hate; can’t stand you; can’t live without your moments… I mean 13 years is a long time, but when it’s over, IT’S OVER!!!
So as we talked I asked what his next steps was… He was kinda afraid to get back out there, but to be honest I think it’s exactly what he needs… So I advised him to keep two women in his pockets. Before you jump off the deep and think I’m encouraging him to be a “Playa”, let me explain… He needs a woman he dates, but he also needs a woman he f..ks… Let me break it down…
Woman He Dates:
This woman serves a mental and emotional building for him… Because he’s been in a marriage for 13 years, he’s feeling the residue of the toxic. He’s unsure of himself; doesn’t feel good in his skin; neither can he see just how good looking of a guy he is, or how amazing of a man he is. His soon to be ex-wife did (Click HERE to read more)