You Have To Work On Your Sexy…

 
Sometimes aging sucks, but it sucks even more if you’re aging horribly…  I’m realizing more each day, you gotta work on your sexy…  Now when I say sexy, I’m not only speaking of physically, but mentally, emotionally and spiritually as well…  Have you ever met someone who’s phine af physically, but ugly and fat mentally???  Their finances are shot, credit is shot, and they’re carrying tons of baggage and insecurities???  “Sexy” is a package deal, not a “Pick One/Two” value meal…  “Sexy” applies to all attributes of a person and whether you know it or not, the outward “sexy” is the results of the inward “sexy”…
 
So many people are luring others into traps with a tight booty, abs, big chest and arms…  They’re lying with cars, clothes and fancy dinners… Because we’ve become a world impressed by and appraised valuable because of physical and materialistic things, the importance of emotional and mental fitness is not a priority for many…  This is why so many of you reading are pissed at or bitter towards the opposite sex…  He knocked your bottom out, but mentally he was unable to give you any type of mental orgasmic feeling…  You were blinded by her booty, but now that you’re living with the residue of her stalking and approaching every woman you come in contact with, you now see that booty wasn’t worth it…
 
So where is it I’m going with this???  Well many of you aren’t “sexy”…  For several years you’ve been so focused on catching the eye, you’ve failed to work on (Click HERE to read more)
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Love Blinds The Heart, Not The Eyes.

So why is it people get into relationships and let themselves go?  Weight gain; wigs; flip flops; untucked shirts and the list goes on…  Looks and appearance shouldn’t be the driving factor of getting a man/woman, but unfortunately it plays a huge part in keeping them…  Now I know some of you don’t want to hear this, but many of your insecurities within your relationship are driven by your own disappointment in what you see each and every time you look in the mirror…

What you see doesn’t quite measure up to what you remember…  You remember when you took pride in your appearance…  When you made time for the gym, weekly hair appointments, manicures and pedicures…  You remember going to bed with your skin just as soft as cotton…  When you actually (Click HERE to read more)

When To Walk

 

So earlier today I was asked what I would tell a woman who believes her husband is cheating…  Before I share my thoughts, here’s some background on this particular situation…  The couple is no longer intimate…  Whether the lack of intimacy is driven from a lack of physical attraction; financial problems or stress, I don’t know… All I was told is there is no intimacy physically, mentally or emotionally…

So what evidence does she have her husband is cheating??? Actually none, but because his behavior has changed, she believes he’s up to no good…  He’s secretive about who he’s talking to, sometimes difficult to reach and of course, he’s not laying pipe at home…

So let’s fast forward to my advice…  If at any time you feel the need to seek a Private Investigator; decide to secretly follow your mate; check voicemail, email, text messages, FB Inbox, IG DM or any other form of communication where there is a password without notifying him/her first, YOU SHOULD WALK…  At this point you’ve stooped to levels no one should ever find themselves…   Either you already know your mate is doing something (Click HERE to read more)

Single, At Your Age???

 

Single for some feels like a curse…  A curse in which has destroyed their dreams of having children; assassinated their hopes of marriage before the age of 30, and a curse which has raped them of what they perceive are the “best years” of their life… There are those who feel “single” is the road block to feeling complete; being “The Best Me”, and for some “single” is what’s keeping them from living their dreams….  Lastly, there are those in which “single” is what’s tipping the scale of their worth…  Because they’re single they believe they’re less than, not living the promises of God; and they’re invisible in the eyes of many…

By now you should be married and if not married, at least in a relationship working towards it…  For those who are more seasoned, by now you should have grand kids, getting old with the one you vowed to love many years ago…  There are those by now, God should have already sent you your “Boaz” or shown you your “Rib”…  By now the question of (Click HERE to read more)

Your Feet Are Way Too Big!!!

What if everyone found peace with their own life?  You know like, not be envious or jealous of what others have?  Or how about not dreaming of living the life people post all over Social Media???  What if people realized the shoes in the window aren’t their size???  Life would be so many easier for many of you, yup you, if only you just realized your feet are way too big…

If only you knew what it takes to wear the shoes you so desperately want to put on…  If you knew the pain and agony of walking in those shoes daily…  If only you knew how the person wearing them now are trying to figure out how they can take them off…  Would you still want that marriage if you knew your spouse would punch you in the face or how about your spouse finding greater pleasure in the company of someone else (Click HERE to read more)

 

The Expectation Of Greater

“Expectations will steal the gifts sitting right there in front of you” Jada Pinkett Smith

What if God blessed us with our “Expectations”???  What if He just said, “Okay, that’s all you want, here you go!!!”?  It’s amazing how our “expectations” seems like the best to us, but to Him they’re limited, small, and so far in the box until He even laughs at them…  I came across the above quote from Jada Pinkett Smith earlier this morning and I was blown away…  So many times we overlook what’s standing before us because we’ve limited ourselves to what we believe is awaiting us…

We’re waiting for God to exceed expectations He hasn’t even planned for us… When His plan is revealed for our lives we then realize it was there all along standing waiting (Click HERE to read more)

Never Meant To Be “Forever”…

 

Everyone isn’t meant to stay in your life forever…  They’re meant for a purpose, but not always meant to be kept around long enough to see the purpose come to past.  The reason many of you are struggling keeping people is because it’s not in the plan for your life to keep them…  Their appearance in your life was either to show you something about yourself or to be the bridge to something or someone else…  They’re not supposed to be a part of your present or future, only your past… Just as seasons comes and goes, so does people…  Everyone you meet isn’t supposed to move in and get settled in your life, so why are you trying to keep them when destiny is asking you to let them go???

Did you know it’s easier to free people who aren’t supposed to be in your life opposed to imprisoning them?  Refusing (Click HERE to read more)