A Woman’s “Tool Box”!!!

 

Outside of ruling the world, what is the one thing most women think they can do???  (Drum roll please…..) “FIX A MAN”…  Yeah I said it, most women and I said MOST believe they have the tools to change a “Pimp into a Preacher”; “Loser into a Lover”; “Dog into a Dad”; “Boy into a Man” and the most recognized, a “Hoe into a Husband”…  Now I get it, the “Wonder Woman” movie has bamboozled some of you into feeling you can do any and everything…  The movie has empowered the weak, strengthened the discouraged and fooled the desperate….  You see ladies I believe as well you’re powerful, have the potential to change the world, BUTTTTTTTTTTTTT there’s one thing I know you can’t do and that is, “FIX A MAN”…  First, a man is who he is…  Whether he needs fixing is not up to you, but for him to decide…  All the tools in your tool box are useless when it comes to a man… 

So here are a few tools women carry around in their box to get the changed man they want…

“Manipulation”… 

  • Out of nowhere she finds the Lord…  For years “sex” was never an issue, but years later she doesn’t want to die and go to hell (For real, For real???)…  Her conscious is now bothering her and she wants to practice “True Love Waits”, so she holds out on sex…  Now take it she’s in her late twenties, thirties, forties and possibly fifties, but now she can’t live this way anymore… She still drinks, club and party and every now and then, she’ll even partake in some weed (Why Hookah when you can get the real stuff), but hey “Sinners have souls too…”  (Shugg Avery, Color Purple)…  

  • Out of nowhere she’s a “Financial Guru”…   For at least the last two months or so she’s known her lease expiration date was coming up, but 15 days until it expires saving money becomes her top priority…  “Moving In” is the best option for the two of them seeing she’s always at his place anyways…  So why spend all of that money when they could be saving for more important things, right??? wink, wink…

“Control”… 

  • Out of nowhere she’s his best friend…  For years he’s had the same friends and in the beginning, she loved them…  She thought they were good influences, but now that her boyfriend hasn’t married her after a few years in…  All of sudden these same guys she’s gotten tips and advice from are encouraging him to lie and cheat.  These same friends are not trustworthy and the reason they’re unhappy…  If he wants to continue this relationship with her, he must cease or decrease his interaction and relationship with his boys…  He should be able to tell her any and everything, even the things she can’t handle…

  • Out of nowhere she’s the only woman he needs…  For some ungodly reason, texting and talking with his female friends is now an issue… Because of the smiles, chuckles and the length of the conversations between the two, there has to be something going on…  Why does he need friends, when he has her, right??? Men and women can’t have platonic friendships, right???  They’re incapable (Click HERE to read more0

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