Sssssh Ladies, He’s Talking…

 

I’m always asked, “Hey John, what does it mean when he says….?” So I have a few minutes and thought I would use them to help you women who have asked one of your buds some of these same questions…  So here we go…

“Hey John, what does it mean when he says he just want to be friends?”…  Well, he means he just wants to be friends…  Men are always accused of lacking emotions and sensitivity, so this could be his way of letting you down easy without saying, “You’re not my type” or “You’re bigger than what I normally date” or how about “You’re crazy as hell”…  If he says “I want to be friends”, be just that…  How to break this “friend language code” is by listening, not making it about you, and moving on…

“Hey John, what does it mean when he says he’s really into me, but right now he has a girlfriend?”…  Well, he means he has a girlfriend, currently unavailable, but willing to “bust dem guts” if you’re down with it… Men are always accused of being liars, but this guy is completely honest to some degree…  He has expressed he has a girlfriend in which he’s not leaving, but possibly emotionally or just physically attracted to you… So you’re thinking “Well he never said he’s not leaving her”, you’re such a genius and maybe this is why you’ve continued sleeping with him without a relationship…  However he’s still with her, included the “but” clause for you to know he has one, and he ended the sentence without stating he was walking away anytime soon for you…   How to break this “Side Chic language code” is by listening, MAKING it about you by recognizing your value and what you’re not willing to settle for, and moving on…

“Hey John, what does it mean when he says he doesn’t want a relationship right now???”…  Well, he means he (Click HERE to read more)

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