We’ve all heard “Truth Hurts” and boy is this an understatement. I can remember when I used to give it straight up to people… I gave the uncut, unedited, and raw truth… Whether or not they asked for it, I gave them my truth… I can remember times when their response would be “John, you’re right”, but they were crushed and left feeling worse than before asking for my thoughts. At the time, I didn’t realize I was hurting in my attempts of helping.
As I’ve matured I realize people already know the truth… They know they’re overweight, making bad decisions, and living their lives recklessly. She know her husband/boyfriend is cheating; it’s wrong for him to call her out of her name, and that she’s crazy for staying in a situation that adds no value to her life. He knows his wife/girlfriend is manipulative, using him for money, and that he’s crazy for sleeping with her without a condom… People already know the truth, so why do we need to confirm what he/she already knows?
The truth does hurt, but it can heal if used properly… God showed me I was tearing people down with the truth… I was (Click “HERE” to read more)